ATTITUDE . . .

OK ~ My job is kindof complicated but for the most part I really enjoy, and the hours are great because it allows me to be home when my son is home from school. But, . . . honestly, there are times when I just want to scream at people! Where does this rudeness come from. I have just been berated by a "customer". The reason customer is in quotes is because number 1, this person rarely spends any money here, and number 2, I just like putting things in quotes. I am overall a nice person. I am the person who everyone else dumps on, because I take it. I am the person that gets overlooked while waiting for help at a store, because I just blend into the back ground. So no, I'm not a mean, smart ass bitch as this man tried to tell me I was. This is part of my new years resolution, just because someone says I'm something doesn't mean I really am. I have been told my whole life that I was dumb, and honestly, I do truly still believe it, but I'm trying to get over that. My husband tells me how fat I am all the time, thats true. But even when I didn't think I was fat (size 6 or 8) he still told me that I was fat. So, now he's right, but he wasn't always right. But, why are people so rude!!! And the bigger question is why do I even care?